Sunday, November 30, 2014

First Birthday Party.


Our family in the middle of the transformed living room.  
Have you ever asked someone when their birthday is and they answer, "I don't know"?  With the people that we interact with, this is the answer more often than not.  Some people do happen to know, but if they do know, it really is no big deal.  Birthday parties are not even a thought.

But when you hang out with Americans, some things rub off on you.  Especially if you like to dress up and have people over.  My friend "Beauty" is one of those people.

This past Saturday she threw herself a birthday party.  It was her first birthday party and what a party it was.  The party began at 3 p.m. in the afternoon.  Our family arrived to her small apartment to find it transformed from a cozy living space to a fancy party room.  A late lunch, early dinner was served to about 20 of us.  Then around 5 p.m. the men and boys slipped out while a well-known S-singer set up for the dance party attended by mostly women.

It was a great time of dancing and laughing.  We learned many things (like it is okay to show your hair if the hostess of a party says it is okay), shared a lot, and simply enjoyed sharing life with our friends.  Around 8 p.m. we girls said our goodbyes knowing that the party would last a few more hours.

Enjoy some pictures.


Kids hanging out with their friend.

Selah loves holding this baby who is now six months old.

Some of the men.  They enjoyed the food and talking with each other.

My sweet sister, Lucky.

The birthday girl, Beauty, and her sister.

Happy Birthday!!!

My dear friend Eve made sure to get a pic with the birthday girl and another friend.

Not a good picture but it was so cute how the singer picked up Selah and sang to her.
Sofia made sure to get her picture with this "famous" singer.
Party guests singing "Happy Birthday"

Time to dance!!!!

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Happy Thanksgiving!


Today, the kids woke up just as any other day, getting ready for school with the same enthusiasm and challenges as usual. Isaiah couldn’t find his sneakers, and groaned until he found them. The girls packed their backpacks with all their belongings. Sofia hurriedly got her stuff together, as she wanted to get some last minute reading in. Selah packed her backpack and proclaimed excitedly: “It is library day today!” I smiled at her.

I am grateful that the kids pressed on today as usual. However, there is a part of me that wishes something different for them, and us...

It is Thanksgiving today in America.  I woke this morning with such a strong desire to be in the house that I grew up in, in Sparta, Michigan, and smelling the aroma of the turkey cooking in the basement oven. Thankfully, that memory will never fade.

I also wish my wife and children could join me there, too, with my whole family and other relatives, enjoying the smells and sounds of all of us gathered together giving thanks and, along with the turkey, partaking of such magnificent dishes as stuffing, coleslaw, mashed potatoes, gravy, corn, rolls, etc., and topping it off with pumpkin pie with a dab of whipped cream on top. 

Then, after stuffing ourselves, we gather together munching on snacks in the afternoon while playing board games and watching the Lions probably lose. (I still haven’t gotten over the 1980 loss to the Bears many years ago, when the Bears took the initial kickoff in for a touchdown in overtime. Grrrr!) 

Around sunset, the turkey and stuffing would be pulled out of the refrigerator and we would partake, yet again, of these great leftovers. We would also continue to play board games well into the evening with lots and lots of laughter. 

Oh, how I wish we could all be a part of that today.

Yet, there is another dimension to all of this...thankfully. I am thankful to be with my wonderful wife and children here in Africa, thousands of miles from such activity. Namely, because the Father has called us to this place, so that we might be able to share good news with others in order that, one day, they, and we, can be together for the most spectacular feast of all:

Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the roar of many waters and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out, “Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure”— for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.” (Revelation 19:6-9 ESV, emphasis mine)

This is our calling, and we are pressing on, much like our children did today getting ready for school, longing for that day when we will be joining our fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, sons and daughters of the faith, while our Lord welcomes us into the greatest of thanksgiving fellowships ever! 

So, I am thankful today. I hope you are, too. 

Happy Thanksgiving!

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Because I just love these kids.

This post is just a bunch of pics of my kids.  Oh they are just so cute and we love them so much.
Can't believe how much they have grown this past year.  Here are their stats.  I had to convert them from metric system.  Ha!

Sofia 9 years 11 mos. old
61 lbs
54 1/2 inches

Selah 7 years 1 mo. old
39 lbs
46 inches

Isaiah 4 years 5 mos. old
36 lbs
42 1/2 inches

These pics were taken in Michigan while there for Dad Sheck's funeral.  It was such a beautiful Fall day I couldn't help but bring out the camera and click away.















Friday, November 7, 2014

Happy Birthday, Sofia!!!!

Our beautiful Sofia is TEN YEARS OLD!!!

It amazes us that this five pound baby girl that arrived five weeks early is ten years old.  Sofia is maturing into a young lady with a heart that loves much.  She loves people, she loves her family and she loves Jesus.  She loves to try new cultural things and loves observing others.  We are thankful for her heart that hurts for others.

We are thankful for the continued gift of prayer that so many of our friends and family give each November.  This gift of prayer is having a great impact on her life.  We also know that the other great impact on her life is the Word of God.  For her 10th birthday Sofia received a new Bible.  It has her name etched on the outside and inside of the back pages written down are the favourite Bible verses of family members.

Sofia, "wisdom of God", may you know the love of God is such a deep way from reading HIS WORD, seeking Him through PRAYER, and SERVING others.

Happy Birthday, sweet daughter.  We love you so much.

Sofia opened her presents by candlelight because we didn't have electricity that night.

Her first bouquet of roses given to her by her daddy.